The Bridal Party: The Men

Brian is honored to have asked these four men to be in our wedding (and even more honored that they agreed). We are always thankful for good friends and family that are willing to support us and be a part of this day with us.

Best Man -- Curt Mattson



Curt is Brian's older brother and fellow connoisseur of all things Mizzou. The brothers are two and a half years apart and normally gang up on the younger, weaker sibling, Lauren. They grew up digging tunnels in the sandbox for army men, developing above-par athletic abilities, and plotting how to rid the world of vampires and zombies in their dad's shed out back. Brian was also the best man at Curt's wedding. Brian brought the house down with his speech and expects the same oratorical response at our wedding.

Groomsmen:

Marc Helfrecht


Marc and Brian met in 6th grade. Now, they consider each other hetero-life partners. (And no, they don't find that term silly.) They became very close in high school through choir and student council and then Marc decided he didn't want to go to Mizzou with Brian. They still kept a close friendship with phone calls every few days, although the calls usually consisted of, "Hey. What's up? Nothing? Yeah, me neither. Well, I'll call you tomorrow or something. Bye."

Andy Patton


Andy and Brian met before Brian's first day of college at a bonfire at his cousin Kyle's house. It turned out Andy was living in the same dorm as Brian, three floors below. Andy approached the relationship tentatively, fearing Brian's brazen nature. He attempted to avoid Brian by walking past the dorm room without uttering a word and keeping his head focused on the floor. The walls were soon knocked down though and they ended up living together for 2 years on East Campus. They were both involved in K-Life, trips to Lee Street Deli, and the occasional brawl on Super Smash Brothers.

Daniel Stern


Daniel is Jessica's older brother and has known Brian for about 8 years. They both grew up in the same church and went to the same high school. Now, whenever they are together, they very much enjoy discussing music, both good and bad, and the antics of mutual friends living in Columbia, both good and bad.

The Engagement

Brian asked me to marry him on July 19, 2007. He filled the backyard with candles, so that when I walked out on our deck the whole back yard was lit up. And there he was, sitting in the middle of the yard, behind a keyboard. He sang to me as I stood at the railing, the tune of "Let It Be" flowing from his mouth with original Brian words. As the song came to an end, Brian came up the stairs, got on one knee, and asked. I have to admit that it was extremely romantic and personal, but my tears never came. I smiled through the whole thing. Our parents came out of the bushes with cameras and captured the final moments for us.

How We Met

It all began at a Super Bowl Party seven years ago. Suave, crazy-haired Brian sat down next to me and told me how he felt. He said that he had had a crush on me since I was in the sixth grade. I made a music video for my choir class (everyone had to) to the song "Wishin' and Hopin' " from , and Brian told me that when he saw that video he just couldn't stop thinking about me. We were friends before this, and it must be noted that he got my seventh grade vote for student body president because I thought he was cute. The feeling was mutual. For those of you who don't know Brian at all, he is a bit of a jokester (those of you who know both of us, however, know that I am funnier), and when he told me that he liked me, like really liked me, I thought he was just kidding around. My heart raced when it became apparent that he was serious. He drove me home that night to "You Look Wonderful Tonight" by Eric Clapton. I gave him wrong directions for about 15 minutes. Every time he got close to my house, I told him to keep going. . . it was further down the road. . . whatever I could do to make the night last longer.
Only a few weeks later, Brian and I kissed for the first time. He didn't want to kiss me so soon, but the night was dark, the stars were bright--I grabbed him and made the first move. When he asked me to actually be his girlfriend, he tied a tie over my eyes and drove me around in his dad's old Grand Jeep Cherokee. We ended up in the empty field behind our church. He had prepared a whole picnic with peeled apples (I'm allergic to the skins), pudding packs, heart-shaped peanut butter and jelly sandwiches, and cupcakes that read "Will you be my girlfriend?" For hours, we sat on the blanket and listened to his specially made CD. As the sun went down and the stars came up, we picked out shapes in the sky and didn't even notice that the music had died. But the music didn't just die on its own; the music had killed the car. Our date ended with a stroll up the street to the gas station. Neither of us had cell phones, the church was locked, and the closest phone was a hike away. Brian's dad had to come pick us up at the gas station, drive us back to the church, and jump the car. It couldn't have been more perfect.
From the beginning of our relationship, Brian and I have been laughing and having fun. Not a day has gone by that I haven't made him laugh harder than he has made me laugh (well, maybe one or two days). It may seem silly, and it may sound made up, but at fifteen years old, I knew that Brian and I were supposed to be together. That feeling I got the first time he told me how he felt about me is still the same feeling I get when I see his face or hear his voice today--that giddy, excited, can't-stop-smiling feeling that only he can make me feel.

The Bridal Party

Jess is honored to have asked these four ladies to be in our wedding (and even more honored that they agreed). We are always thankful for good friends and family that are willing to support us and be a part of this day with us.

The Maid of Honor:

Joanna Stern (The Bride's Big Sister) Joanna and Jessica are only 16 months apart. They are extremely close and never go a day without talking. Granted, they live in the same house . . . but the point is, they talk all the time. Jo just had a baby, our little niece Sophia Grace. The two have already made her into a shopper and fashion icon. If only she wore the same size shoes.



The Bridesmaids:

Ali Deering-- Ali and Jess lived together in London. They met the first night they were abroad and spent almost every day together after that. She's from Michigan, goes to Mizzou, has a similar love for cheese, bread, and pizza. It was obvious these two were meant to find each other.



Michelle Anderson-- Michelle and Jess have grown up together. They played basketball and soccer together for years, double-dated to dances with yours truly and Michelle's soon-to-be-husband, Wes, and have maintained a close friendship through their college years.




Lauren Mattson-- Lauren is my little sister. She has a crazy sense of humor and shares Jess's love for literature and English. When the two get together, there's always laughter. Usually, I'm too scared to even ask what they're laughing about, but I love seeing my family all blending together.

A little about us...

In case you go to school with Brian and don't know Jess, or if you are in Springfield and don't know Brian, or if you don't know either of us very well....here is a little bit about us.

We are officially nerds. Jessica is more the Harry Potter kind, I lean towards Lord of the Rings, but we both have a deep passion for the two. Jessica is getting her degree in English Education and Brian is majoring in Broadcast Journalism, but of course, we would rather just get paid to travel.


Jessica spent last Spring semester in London getting cultured in everything Europe (i.e. Guinness, the Queen, Wicked and terrible exchange rates). She had a blast, but likes not having to share a flat with 11 other girls. She enjoys knitting, cooking (Yay Giada), napping and singing along to musicals. She has developed a love of all things Mizzou, like Brian, and her true favorite sports team is the Detroit Red Wings.


Brian loves all things Mizzou....almost more than life itself, he also roots for the Kansas City Chiefs and Royals, and he supports Tottenham Hotspur FC, a soccer team in England. He enjoys playing guitar and drums, taking random words people say and turning them into songs (thanks Dad), and dominating at all sports.

The Wedding

Here is a little info about the wedding:

It is going down at Wesley United Methodist Church in Springfield, Missouri on July 26th, 2008. We haven't decided on a time yet, but plan on an early evening ceremony. It will be your typical wedding with a little of our own personalities thrown in (i.e. the Mizzou fight song, hula hoops, and Fat Tire for all those of age).


The reception/party is happening downtown at the renovated Gillioz Theater (gillioz.org) and the food will be catered by our good friends at Dining By Design. Great people! Expect champagne, dancing and good music.....but not necessarily good dancing.

We'll have more info coming up I'm sure.

The Alpha

This is the first post in our blog....hopefully we will keep it updated so you can get all the info about what is going on with the wedding and our lives. Enjoy.